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Get Back Up…Again

by Vaneese Pattman Recently, I’ve been down. I have questioned my goals, my decisions and my parenting. “I can do better, be better, and parent better, so why am I not better?” I asked this question numerous times and during numerous situations. My answer would come in the form of renewed energy and a motivated mindset. A motivated mommy mindset. One of invincibility. I’m sure you can … [Continue reading...]

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Accepting (And Loving) The Chaos

My kitchen is always dirty. Always. No matter if I clean as I go while I'm cooking dinner, or if I put the dishes in the dishwasher before I go to bed, or if I clear off the counter before I start cooking. It just stays a mess. And I've given up, really, trying to keep it pristine. I think it's a waste of my energy at this point. Right now, I'm focused on many other things. I'm appreciating … [Continue reading...]

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What’s On Your “I’m Grateful” List?

I've been in a bit of a slump lately. Well, that's sugar-coating things. Quite a bit. Since I was laid off, my self-esteem took a hit. At first, things were good because my kids didn't immediately come out of daycare. I had a few weeks where I was able to get up and do whatever I wanted to occupy my mind and distract me from the fact that I was let go from a job where I thought I was … [Continue reading...]

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3 Ways to Tell If You’re Doing Alright As A Mom

Why did I choose this photo to illustrate this post? A couple reasons, but this one in particular: This photo was taken last year on a lazy Saturday. I decided to lay down for a minute, give them a few precious moments to play together before I had to separate them for naptime. I flip through a magazine, proud of myself for taking a moment to relax before the inevitable fight that is the … [Continue reading...]

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Guest post: Unleash Your Drive and See Where it Takes You

by Nicole Lynn Lewis On Saturday, I sat in the bleachers of a middle school gym watching my daughter’s basketball game with the other team parents. One of the mothers is reading my book Glori, which chronicles my experience of putting myself through college as a teen mom despite homelessness, a drug infested environment, and an oppressive relationship. She told me she loved the book so far – … [Continue reading...]

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moms night out

This past weekend, I went to Borders to meet up with a writer buddy/mommy friend of mine. We let it all out and talked about any and everything: the kids, the husband, the career, our fears, our hopes and dreams, our desires. We made good conversation for more than three hours, barely noticing the darkening sky outside. It was heavenly. I was able to get some things off my chest, help my friend … [Continue reading...]

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Say a little prayer for you

Ever since my kids were born, I've prayed every single day. Without fail, there's some communication between me and the big guy. Or is that Big Guy?  Usually I pray about little things. Please let today be a good day. Please let me know what it is I need to do if something goes wrong. Please let me make it to work on time. But then sometimes I pray about the big things. Please show me if  … [Continue reading...]

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Weekly inspiration: Accepting and fixing your flaws

Being a mom sometimes means your flaws are in the spotlight because your babies are your walking, talking, breathing reflection. You show your frustration, all of a sudden they've got their hands on their hips and are mimicking your tone of voice. I know, after having my daughter (who is truly my mini-me), that one of my biggest problems is my impatience. When I ask for help, I'd like it to be … [Continue reading...]

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